One or many


One or many what do I mean ?





For me I say the ones at this present time are minimal, why? because it is quite difficult to stand as a one.

When you stand as one it doesn't mean you don't understand, what it does mean is you have hesitated before you reacted and thought for yourself. Is this thought for yourself right or wrong ? It could be a bit of both, after all you think based on your understanding and that there is why its difficult to be a one. Your understanding means you have to take full responsibility for that thought. Taking responsibility means you do not blame another for where you are at your present time and the thoughts that got your there.


Why is this so hard ? Could it be that you acted on thoughts contrary to everyone else and thus you are rejected, seen as difficult, even seen as a person that just does not have much compassion. There could be many reasons, as everyone is so different and so their reactions are really only based on what they think is truth. This in itself is not therefore something that is in your control so standing as one just means you like to do a bit of thinking for yourself. Its not a bad thing at all, its just difficult for some, so in no way it means a person of many is any less than a person of one, it means everyone is individual. 


With all that is current in society at any time in life, therefore is it not valuable to appreciate yourself enough to stand as a one ?  You only get one go at life and it is finite for every single one of us. As a one, you may not be correct in your observation and thought however as a one, you appreciate yourself enough to own it and if (and it possibly will be) not completely fact , be willing to learn from another. A discussion between a one and a one opens you to possibilities and new opportunities to enrich your life and also add value and positivity to another. A discussion between a one and a many does not fully allow you to learn and appreciate an individual as a discussion, with many, incorporates many variables and therefore many confounding views ( not entirely wrong, just muddled).


 


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